Kinky?

So I was just wondering... There's a ton of weird, fetishy sexual roleplay that happens on this site, but do any of you have irl experience with fetish stuff?

Not specifically wrestling, of course, but like... Wrestling often falls under the broad umbrella of BDSM, depending on how you do it, though of course everyone's different. Is this as adventurous as you folks get, or do you have experience to draw from?

And for those of you who get off on actual abuse or rape or what have you, you can rot in hell.

Those of you who don't though, you're among friends

I do.

I don't do it so much anymore, but there was a period a few years ago where I was very heavy into BDSM culture and learned a lot about it. A friend of mine had a 24/7 contract with his wife, and they sort of took me under their wing, helped me look at the lifestyle from a more realistic perspective and see that it could be quite healthy and safe. They have two lovely kids, a normal outside life, it's all consensual and sweet in its own way. I haven't delved into it as much as I'd like because of some health issues, but it's something I'm very interested in.

There's a quarterly show around here called Purgatory that I attend from time to time. Dancing, synth music, playrooms, and these great little live shows. I've had some wild times, there.

Those things you condemned Blue, I'm not into them at all whatsoever. I don't have any experiences at all with BDSM or most other fetish stuff or sexual experiences.

Mainly, for the sexual experiences, due to the fact I'm a guy and a normal human being that doesn't bring in a woman home every day to have sex with unlike most of the sick fucks out there so I want to prove women wrong that men are not all sex craved animals. And as for fetish stuff I'd be really embarrassed if I, both, actually did partake in such things and got caught doing it. I really do care about my image and rep so I wouldn't want to do anything that will cause my family to disown me or have my friends be disgusted and want nothing to do with me anymore. It's just a complicated feeling that I cannot figure out how to go about it.

I will admit, that I'd like to have SOME experience with fetish stuff. I just don't want to be publicly exposed in RL and lose my friends and family.

There are places you can be quite private with it.

I've been into BDSM for years, and nobody except my brother has any real inkling about it. In fact, I can almost gaurantee you know someone who's into it, and you just haven't found out.

I can bet on that, but the problem is I don't want to risk finding out. Cause if I try I might more likely run into someone who doesn't like it and be disgusted with me... u.u

Well, fuck that guy.

Heh. All the guys my age in my small town that know me fear me. They all know I can beat them up

And I'm sure some want me to. Does that count?

@Gregar You think most guys are sick fucks who bring home a new girl every night for sex? I don't think WOMEN are the ones with the misconceptions in this case.

But it's not something you need to worry about right now. No one can try to push you toward doing things you're not comfortable with, and there are different times in your life for different things.

And this is not to say that everyone needs to or should be some variety of kinky, it's just an option.

Bluemouse wrote:@Gregar You think most guys are sick fucks who bring home a new girl every night for sex? I don't think WOMEN are the ones with the misconceptions in this case.

I'm talking about those douchebag wangster pimps that treat women as tools and toys for sex and don't care about their well-being, like if they get pregnant or not. And then after the night is over they brag about their night while slandering the girl and at the same time talking about the next girl on the list to deflower.

But yeah, I know what this thread is about Blue. Just speaking my position in the kinky. Also I forgot to add that I just rely on my creative imagination and whatever I've seen before for the BDSM and other fetishy fun stuff for when I do such things here. But I think most of us can agree that at least some of us are all into at least a little bit of S&M since we write about girls being in immense pain and about girls causing the immense pain.

Don't worry about those guys. They exist, but your average guy is just an average guy.