Bitch, Bitch, Bitch

I don't often make serious posts. I bet that can be seen. But one thing I will say that when it comes to certain matters I can be very serious. Most of the time I am not, I feel that the world is in parts too fun and other parts too cruel to take everything completely serious. I am not good at a lot of things. But one thing I have always prided myself on is to be able to in any situation not take a stand on one particular side. I most of the time will look on situations, involving others, even if friends as a neutral party.

First off I will say this, I don't wanna go on any tangent anymore. I will admit that part of me has been a bit pissed at BM for this thread, cause all I see if one sided argumentation, that doesn't even bring to light what this thread is truly about, and when it gets the slightest glimpse of it, it is not done well. And whilst she has admitted to it, I can not just say that this is alright. This entire thread feels like a public denunciation to people who bitch. And well why ? do you want the bitchers to make all their complaints public, secondly this is a case of bitching at people who bitch. It's not gonna go very well.

Now I will say this, in no way do I say that the people who have bitched have done a good thing, but they have exercised a right that they have, and that it to say what they want. I do however wonder, why did people link chat logs ? why did they bring things up to the person in question ? If you just leave the complaints at what they are, complaints none of this would even be drama. When I took a good long look at this thread last, all I see is a person writing up a angry complaint to people who complained about one of their friends. And that's fine, but don't do it in public like this, how about trying to talk to the people in question, "the bitchers" and attempt to solve this, instead of doing something that will only escalate it.

@Tai: Whilst I can't say I agree that bitching to get what they want is right, that doesn't seem to be the main problem now does it ? They still have the right to do so, if they want to bitch because they want a title, then it's the job of the person they are bitching to, to say they don't wanna hear it, or that they just aren't gonna get it if they keep acting like that ? That's how I see it anyway. I might be the only one, but that's fine.

@BM: I will say this, I do apologize for any insult I might have throw your way, not really my intent, but I can't say I didn't do it.

@Lobo: Only have three things to say about this, I dunno who has complained and said what. I dunno if Tief has complained and said things that aren't true or not. What I do know, is that so far in this thread nobody has dropped any real names as to who have done what, which is a good thing. Now I will not say that Tief hasn't complained, but I will say this. No reason to bring any of that up as no one has even said anything in regards to that. It seemed as if your post was directed at me to try and clear something up, but as I see there is nothing that is cleared up, all I said is that there are signs of favoritism on this board. It was not directed at any said person. I would also urge you to refrain from actually trying to start some kind of dispute by name dropping and " trying to point out facts"

@ Alexandra: It is not good that people have said things that aren't true, that they have gone around and talked behind your back and creating lies. But you haven't exactly stayed out of this, and will I see you have said you have been trying to and it's hard. You have posted on this thread, responding to things that BM has said and agreeing with it fully, and yes I can understand that. I will say this though, and I want to emphasize, I am on nobody's side. I am not attacking you, nor Lobo, Tai or Bm. I am trying to say this, it was not wisely done, this entire thing, it simply creates more drama and I urge everyone here to start trying to work these issues out with the people who have bitched in private, and at least try to mend the fences instead of trying to drive a bulldozer through it.

Drama started, the SECOND this thread was made, and that's a fact. So in whole, not wanting to start drama is fine. But if that was what you wanted, why would someone else start it on your behalf ? Now once again I will stress that I am not trying to target anyone. I simply want this entire thing to die down and be resolved like it should have been from the start, for something like this serves no other purpose than to fan the flames, and the house has already started to catch fire. So how about we just act like adults ?

Lunar, I'll talk to you in private about this, so you can understand what's really going on here.

Puff... 12 pages and a lot of it was just stupid pictures from Sirenx but finally the plot is moving.

I LOVE drama, specially when I am not involved in it... not directly at least (I know I am one of the forums favorites and I hog titles all the time, but this time nobody was complaining about me)...

but it makes me a little sad to see you all fighting... still it is better than seeing you all talking behind your backs.

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but it makes me a little sad to see you all fighting... still it is better than seeing you all talking behind your backs.